Thursday, July 16, 2009

Daddy's Little Girl

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Originally from Ethiopia, Miriam Tigist Green, 4, was adopted by Emory professor Clifton Green and his wife in 2005. This is her hair unbraided, before her father applies his weekly loving touch. His care and attention to detail show mastery of a task few white men ever contemplate.
---Joey Ivansco / AJC


From the Atlanta Journal-Constitution:
Perfect braids show depth of dad's devotion
By MICHELLE HISKEY
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Published on: 06/15/08


Clifton Green waited a decade to become a dad, imagining he would be like the man who raised him and made him feel like the most special kid in the world.

That day came in 2005, when Green and his wife adopted daughter Miriam Tigist from an Ethiopian orphanage.

Suddenly, fatherhood demanded a task few white men ever contemplate: hours of cleaning, combing, twisting and braiding African hair.

Such skills typically are handed down from older family members and, as this Emory University associate professor of finance discovered, take hours of practice. In the wrong hands, hair like his daughter's can break off.

"Besides the color of her skin, her hair is one of the few ways we are different," Green said last week as he twisted the thick curls of Miriam, now 4. "The more tangled it is, the more it hurts, the more she protests — in that way, it's pretty universal."

By knowing how to make straight parts, neat twists and careful braids, he has earned high-fives from stunned African-Americans.

"That meek and mild guy? He does not do her hair! You could have picked me off the floor when I found out," said Latise Egeston, an African-American counselor at Miriam's preschool. "Her hair looks fabulous every day, and I know what it takes."

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Wednesday, July 15, 2009

What Bougie Folks are Forced to Do – Defend our Blackness

Hat tip: I found the link to this blog at The Black Snob

From the blog, Black 'n Bougie:

Sunday, July 12, 2009
WBFFD (What Bougie Folks are Forced to Do) – Defend our Blackness


Subtitled Adventures in BougieLand…

Okay, this is going to be lengthy but bear with me here. Being a person of color in America is an inexplicably complex state of being. Being Black or African-American adds another layer of complexity. I'm not complaining, just stating facts. Blackness, unlike political affiliation, class association or sexual preference cannot be lost or found, does not fade or waiver. If you are born black, you die black and there's nothing to debate. Old time black folks have a saying, "There are only two things I have to do in this life, that's stay black and die." (Other variations include staying black and paying taxes but that's a whole different post). I'll also take a moment to acknowledge the multi-racials who often aren't given a chance to declare their race one way or the other. The way this country works, once you are perceived as any part of black, you are lumped in here with the rest of us (sorry, Tiger).

In addition to the association of blackness vs. whiteness or any other race, an African-American also realizes that there are perceived levels of "blackness" within our own community. Bougie blacks have an even tougher path to walk. We face bias both inside and outside of the race. We have to be "non-black" enough for White America (well spoken, non-threatening, calm, educated) yet still "down" enough to hang with our own (talk the talk and walk the walk). How many jokes about Bryant Gumbel's "lack of blackness" have you heard? What makes him more or less black than anyone else? Does he really need to rock a FUBU shirt, hold a rib in one hand and drop quotes from the Jay-Z Songbook?

Here are just a few things I've noticed that seem to weigh in on the scales of blackness…

Speech – Chris Rock tells a joke in his HBO special, "Bring the Pain" about how the main stream media emphasized how Colin Powell "speaks so well." A large portion of my life has been spent trying not to wince when white people tell me, "You are SO well spoken." Think holding back the wince is hard? Try holding back the scowl when your own people ask you, "Why do you talk so white?" Argh! What is talking white? Using proper English and embracing all the syllables? What is talking black? Talking fast and lyrically with a lot of slang thrown in? If you can put English and Spanish together and get Spanglish, how about I put the Queen's English and Ebonics together to form Quebonics?

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Where Race In Congress Should Not Matter

A new report by the Congressoinal Black Caucus raises concerns that a number of committees, chaired by whites, have far too few black staffers and aides serving on them. I have no reason to doubt the CBC's numbers, but I strongly disagree with how problematic that is.

Besides drawing on seasoned veterans (yes, not every congressional staffer is a rich college intern), most committee chairs use their privileged position to reward their home constituencies. Meaning, their committees tend to reflect their home districts. Committees chaired by blacks have more black staffers because their district is black. You really wouldn't expect an Agriculture committee or its subcommittees, which are manly populated by Plains state legislators that represent states and districts that are upwards of 90% white to have large numbers of minorities.

Does it affect policy? Yes. But, so does not having strict gender parity too.

A better strategy to achieving real parity is for the CBC to continue focusing its efforts on helping African Americans get through this terrible recession in one piece.

Monday, July 13, 2009

All-Star Baseball Time in St. Louis



I was interested in going until I saw the ticket prices. Cheap seats and standing room tickets were starting around $400-$500 when I looked. I quickly came to my senses and realized how nice it would be to watch from home.

Home Run Derby tonight....and the game tomorrow.

Our friendly right wing radio people (Station KFTK 97.1 FM) have been suggesting to their listeners (in a roundabout way) that they should boo Obama when he shows up to throw out the first pitch tomorrow night. I doubt if they'll get enough people to take part....but it wouldn't surprise me if the boos are noticeable. Although the City is Obama Country... the people who can actually afford to attend baseball games tend to be a little more affluent, more Conservative and are from the suburbs, and in this case from different parts of the Country.

We shall see.

The Sonia Sotomayor Senate Hearings - Day 1

Today.... opening statements.

See Video

Dr. Regina Benjamin chosen for Surgeon General

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From CNN.com:
Dr. Regina Benjamin is Surgeon General choice

WASHINGTON (CNN) -- President Obama announced Monday his choice for surgeon general -- Dr. Regina Benjamin, a 52-year-old family practice doctor who has spent most of her career tending to the needs of poor patients in a Gulf Coast clinic in Alabama.

"When people couldn't pay, she didn't charge them," Obama said. "When the clinic wasn't making money, she didn't take a salary for herself."

He called Benjamin "a relentless promoter" of programs to fight preventable illness.

Benjamin cited the toll of preventable illness as the reason her family was not with her at the announcement: Her father died with diabetes and high blood pressure; her older brother and only sibling died at age 44 of an HIV-related illness; her mother died of lung cancer after taking up smoking as a girl; her mother's twin brother could not attend because he is at home "struggling for each breath" after a lifetime of smoking.

"I cannot change my family's past, but I can be a voice to improve our nation's health for the future," she said. Watch for more on Benjamin »

Benjamin received a bachelor's degree in 1979 from Xavier University of Louisiana, attended Morehouse School of Medicine from 1980 to 1982, and received a doctor of medicine degree from the University of Alabama at Birmingham in 1984.

She completed her residency in family practice at the Medical Center of Central Georgia in 1987.

Her medical training was paid for by a federal program, the National Health Service Corps, under which medical students promise to work in areas with few doctors in exchange for free tuition, one year of service for every year of paid tuition.

Benjamin founded the Bayou La Batre Rural Health Clinic in 1990 in the fishing village of Bayou La Batre, Alabama, and has served as its CEO since.

Rest of article at link above.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Evian's Roller Babies

Oh you know you like it.

I couldn't help but love this commercial. Although i'm not a fan of Rap, I did grow up on the early music of the genre and vividly remember this track. I listened to this music 20-25 years ago. The song (from Sugar Hill Gang), the boombox and the backdrop remind me a little of my days in Kansas in the Mid 1980's and my own boombox blaring as I played Basketball on the schoolyard Blacktop. The music also reminds me of my fathers famous Cookouts (definitely a simpler time).

I also can't live without my Evian (say whatever you want about the water.... I am not going to stop drinking it) :).