tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21083673.post8838866330852903956..comments2023-10-28T03:07:12.758-07:00Comments on Mirror On America: Abstinence In Your 30's - How Late Should You Wait? Brian http://www.blogger.com/profile/07872444863142531165noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21083673.post-27985484167547425892015-03-28T22:09:09.868-07:002015-03-28T22:09:09.868-07:00I also think that you need to be doing the job tha...I also think that you need to be doing the job that you want, not the job that will land you the girl. Whatever it is that you are doing, make it work. If someone is really into you and you have a minimum wage job, then they either stick with you or they don't. I think you may be using the job thing as a scapegoat. I agree with the other comments that you need to get out there and ask people out, if not for just the experience. But no one can say yes if you don't ask. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21083673.post-66527850347965965592013-05-16T00:05:28.753-07:002013-05-16T00:05:28.753-07:00If you abstinence for 30's, You enter marriage...If you abstinence for 30's, You enter marriage with a more positive outlook and without carrying emotional baggage. <br /><a href="http://benefitof.net/benefits-of-abstinence" rel="nofollow">Benefits of Abstinence</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13548710848716204276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21083673.post-36901727488191628542013-02-19T18:10:06.815-08:002013-02-19T18:10:06.815-08:00Would agree that my confidence is a factor. But yo...Would agree that my confidence is a factor. But you have to understand that as a man... that is all tied to job/income. Those aren't separate issues.Brian https://www.blogger.com/profile/07872444863142531165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21083673.post-17242347791996846112013-02-15T09:08:19.703-08:002013-02-15T09:08:19.703-08:00Dating is a numbers game.. you have to date people...Dating is a numbers game.. you have to date people to see who's the right one. If you never approach someone, then how will you know if they'll date you? I don't think your problem is money or lack thereof, but confidence. You may be abstinent forever unless you are able to change your attitude. Also, having no dating experience, your comments about women "needing a partner with high incomes" is rather naive. Not every woman is a materialistic gold digger. But if you took a chance you might have found that out by now. (Speaking as a woman who waited til age 35 to marry, now age 38).BekkaPoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02971810593410692392noreply@blogger.com